If you have a son, grandson, work with boys, teach a boys Bible study, or know another dad who has boys, then this message is for you…

As part of the transition to manhood, boys desperately need their dads or other adult men in their lives to teach them about work, and to develop healthy attitudes toward work and a willingness to work for God’s glory.

The best way to do this is apprenticeship, where a boy “shadows” his dad or other adult men and learns about work and character by example.

An excellent resource I am using to teach my own sons about work is “Created For Work: Practical Insights For Young Men.”

The author, a dad himself and a carpenter by trade, tells inspiring stories from his own life and work — real-world stories that fascinate boys.

He uses these stories along with Scripture to reveal truths about diligence, initiative, honesty, promptness, responsibility, and many more aspects of character and work ethic.

Two of my sons favorite chapters are “Dirt” and “The Donut Race.” “Dirt” is about a guy who never lets dirt get in the way of completing his work. “The Donut Race” is about two boys who race each other to a donut shop one morning before school. One boy obeys the traffic laws, while the other one speeds. It’s an effective and humorous lesson on haste and also teaches how hasty people miss God because God is never in a hurry.

Having personally read this book with my own son when he was 8, and now re-reading it again with him at age 10, I give “Created For Work” two thumbs up as an excellent way for dads to spend quality time with their sons as well as impress on their minds key character qualities about work through reading together fun “guy-stories” and discussing the questions at the end of each chapter.

If you have a son, grandson, or know a boy or group of boys between the ages of 8 and 16, this book is highly recommended as an interactive resource. It is also an excellent gift idea for a boy or dad!

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by Joey Watkins

Last night I was reading a chapter in the book Created For Work with my almost 10-year-old son. The chapter was on blind spots and tells a story of a time when the author, Bob Schultz, nearly killed himself in the woods one day on a runaway logging skidder because his foot was unknowingly mashed down on the accelerator while he stood on the step-up platform to hitch a ride. Because of the noise of the engine, the driver had to literally punch Bob’s leg off the accelerator to save him from a deadly accident.

Bob then ties this story to the problems we each face in life — in our work, our family, or whenever life gets out of hand — and encourages us to consider if we may be at fault.

A blind spot, of course, is some flaw in our actions, our talk, or our character that we do not see but others do. We don’t know what our blind spots are because if we did, they wouldn’t be blind spots!

For many of us dads, our blind spots are in the areas of pride, ego, selfishness, impure thoughts, and love of money. I know a man who worked as a sales manager for a business owner who had a blind spot in the area of his money. His business grew extremely well financially year after year and developed a very large surplus of cash. However, the business owner kept most of the profits and shared relatively little with his sales manager. His blind spot was a false sense of security in his money.

Knowing we have blind spots should humble each of us. Our wife, our children, and those in our work environment are usually the ones best able to help us identify our blind spots because these people spend the most time with us and know us best.

Let’s step up as family dads and have the courage to ask them what our blind spots are. Do it honestly, and don’t be defensive when they tell you. Just listen, pray about it, and then begin changing your ways. You’ll be a better person for it… and a better dad for your family.

“Who can understand stumblings? Cleanse thou me from secret faults.” Psalm 19:12

Resource For Boys

Dad, here’s a great way to spend one-on-one time with your 8-16 year old son. Read aloud with him each evening from this book, Created For Work. Each chapter is very short — only 3 to 5 pages — and uses an adventurous story in the life of a carpenter/handyman along with scripture to communicate principles of life, work, and character that our boys need to learn during their transition to manhood. The writing style is wholesome, engaging, and communicates spiritual truth to boys such as diligence, initiative, honesty, promptness, responsibility, and much more. A highly recommended FamilyDads resource. Learn More and Order